A big part of this summer has been hanging out with my male friends, drinking, smoking and every outing seeming like a witch hunt for women. It’s never my personal agenda I was never really big on approaching women in public simply because;

• It feels undignified witnessing over guys go about it, I refusing to say anything remotely similar to what they do.
• I feel like I’m bothering them, I know when I’m at the mall or with friend I either want to get in and out with no hassle or enjoy the company of the people I’m with not strangers.
• The whole “choosing” ordeal is stressful too. I rather not be dragged around following a group of girls with my friends because a girl may or may not have choosing. The fact that my friends nearly followed a group of girls to their car in the parking garage felt uncomfortable. 
• Ratios, why are 4 of us running up on 1 girl?
• Questionable ages.

Then there’s the constant pressure they’ll stress too hard. Being pushed to be aggro is annoying but I get where they are coming from.